The wait is over! G-baby (as she will be called from here on out) made her entrance on a Sunday afternoon. Being totally objective (lol), she is the most perfect baby ever. My kid has been asking me a ton of questions, and my response is usually, “I don’t remember”. You forget a lot in 30 years. What I do remember from way back when was thinking, I’m never going to forget this moment”. Life’s little ironies. Like all first-time parents, they are both thrilled and shell-shocked; there really isn’t a way to prepare for it. They may not realize it, but they’re doing great.

We arrived in NYC a little over 2 weeks ago, and since then, the Lovin Spoonful song…”hot town, summer in the city, back my neck getting dirty and gritty…” has been running through my brain. Whew, it has been hot and humid. While waiting for the baby to make her appearance, I decided I should make something for her. Wes made a “My Little Pony” rattle, as this is the year of the Horse, which inspired me to pick a craft project. I decided on knitting a strawberry baby beanie; how hard could it be?
Apparently, my baking and cooking IQ is much higher than my knitting IQ. I ended up at a knitting group session in Bryant Park (it was 94 degrees, thank goodness for shade) hosted by Knitty City. Needing additional help with the hat, I went to their store the next day, which is conveniently close to where the kids live. If you are in UWS and you are a knitter, do visit Knitty City. They single-handedly saved G-baby’s beanie, lol. Just so nice.
Comfort Zone
Dinner at a friend’s, where I volunteered to bring dessert, brought me back to my comfort zone. My first thought: what can I make for dessert without turning on the oven? Tiramisu was a no-brainer—no baking required.
My go-to recipe is from NYT Cooking by Alison Roman. It’s fairly simple to make, but it does need time to chill in the fridge, at least 4 hours. This lets the Tiramisu set and the flavors meld. So start early! I headed to the iconic Di Palo’s on the edge of Chinatown and Little Italy for some Mascarpone. While there, I couldn’t resist picking up some house-made Calabrian chili and a jar of anchovies for Four Tomato Pasta Sauce.
It’s a beautiful, old-school space with wonderful cheeses and meats, and a very knowledgeable staff. Worth a visit.
Tips for Tiramisu
For the most part, the ingredients in tiramisu are things you would find in your pantry. Check out my IG reel here!
Mascarpone: Think of it as an Italian cream cheese. Made from cream, it is softer and less tart than cream cheese. Find it in major grocery stores, Trader Joe’s, and Italian Cheese shops. Remove it from the fridge so it is still cold when you are ready to use it. Otherwise, the Mascarpone-cream mixture may be a little runny.
Ladyfingers: Light, airy, dry, slightly sweet biscuits that absorb liquids like coffee well.. Commercially available ladyfingers are a boon to making Tiramisu. Of course, you could make your own, but that takes it out of the simple category. Most supermarkets carry ladyfingers; find them in the cookies and crackers or international food section. Savoiardi is the Italian term for ladyfingers. The key is to dip each biscuit for about 1 second per side. Dip for too long, and the biscuits will fall apart. Too short, and the Tiramisu may be a little dry.
Cocoa Powder: Sprinkle Dutch-processed cocoa powder on top of the tiramisu. You can use whichever cocoa powder you like; Dutch-processed cocoa has a deep, dark color, while natural cocoa is lighter. To increase the chocolate flavor, dust each layer with cocoa powder.
Coffee: Brewed strong coffee, espresso, or coffee made with espresso powder are options. I’ve never gone out and bought coffee to make Tiramisu.
Alcohol: Traditional Tiramisu doesn’t have alcohol, but it seems to have become a popular riff. Roman’s recipe calls for rum or Cognac. I like using Kahlua to amplify the coffee flavor.
Here’s the Tricky Part
If there is a difficult step to Tiramisu, it is the filling. Start with room temperature eggs, add sugar, and beat until light and creamy. When you lift the beaters, the batter will create ribbons as it falls back into the bowl. The original recipe calls for folding the mascarpone into the whipped cream. The densities are too different. Instead, fold the mascarpone into the egg mixture before folding in the whipped cream. Start with cold mascarpone; this helps keep the final mixture thick. 
MIse en place is important. Set up a workstation to assemble the tiramisu.

Dipping the ladyfingers is also tricky. Too little and the tiramisu will be dry and the flavors will not meld as well. Too much and the ladyfingers will disintegrate before making it into the dish. Dip the rounded side first for 1 second, then flip it over and dip the flat side for 1 second and place in the dish. The ladyfinger should be moist on the outside but not all the way through. As it sits, the ladyfinger will soften.

Spread the mascarpone mixture on top of the ladyfingers, and dust each layer with cocoa to amplify chocolate flavor.

Finish the top with a nice thick layer of cocoa. Two camps: dust and chill or dust before serving. Your choice. Bling it up with chocolate curls.

Tiramisu
Ingredients
FOR THE CREAM
- 4 large egg yolks
- ½ cup granulated sugar (100 grams) divided
- ¾ cup heavy cream
- 1 cup mascarpone (227 grams) 8 ounces
FOR ASSEMBLY
- 1 ¾ cups good espresso or very strong coffee
- 2 tablespoons rum or cognac
- 2 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
- 24 ladyfingers (from one 7-ounce/200-gram package)
- 1 to 2 ounces bittersweet chocolate, for shaving (optional)
Instructions
- Prepare the cream: Using an electric mixer in a large bowl, whip together egg yolks and ¼ cup/50 grams sugar until very pale yellow and about tripled in volume. A slight ribbon should fall from the beaters (or whisk when lifted from the bowl. Set aside.
- In a medium bowl, whip cream and remaining ¼ cup/50 grams sugar until it creates soft peaks. Add mascarpone and continue to whip until it creates a soft, spreadable mixture with medium peaks. Gently fold the mascarpone mixture into the sweetened egg yolks until combined.
- For the assembly, combine espresso and rum in a shallow bowl and set aside.
- Using a sifter, dust the bottom of a 2-quart baking dish (an 8x8-inch dish, or a 9-inch round cake pan would also work here) with 1 tablespoon cocoa powder.
- Working one at a time, quickly dip each ladyfinger into the espresso mixture -- they are quite porous and will fall apart if left in the liquid too long -- and place them rounded side up at the bottom of the baking dish.
- Repeat, using half the ladyfingers, until you’ve got an even layer, breaking the ladyfingers in half as needed to fill in any obvious gaps (a little space in between is O.K.).
- Spread half the mascarpone mixture onto the ladyfingers in one even layer. Repeat with remaining espresso-dipped ladyfingers and mascarpone mixture.
- Dust top layer with remaining tablespoon of cocoa powder. Cover with plastic wrap and let chill in the refrigerator for at least 4 hours (if you can wait 24 hours, all the better).
- Top with shaved or finely grated chocolate, if desired, then slice or scoop to serve.


Thanks for the recipe. Looks yummy! I will try to make it this weekend. Congratulations on baby arrival!